Code of Conduct for QH-369

– the way we conduct ourselves in the face of adversity, or personal confrontation.  These keys are part of what makes us aware of our true purpose and mission.

– subject to interpretation and observation of individuals who are focused on what is happening through the eyes of love, kindness and compassion.  Although this will vary from soul to soul as to what is perceived, it must still align to what is loving, kind, fair or compassionate.  All other reactions are not based on truth but fear.

– this will vary depending on your state of being and your point of balance.  When we are balanced, the truth is easy to accept and embrace.

– this will vary according to the position you are placed in at the time of the occurrence or event.  All points of view must be considered valuable if you are going to resolve the situation with love, fairness, kindness and compassion.

– this will depend on the lesson being learned, the willingness to experience it and the desire to resolve it peacefully.

– is how we choose to react or respond to what is happening and what we feel is the best way to express what we feel is needed to enhance the situation. We must create boundaries and be clear in sharing our willingness to engage when the time is right and not always when it is demanded of us.  Clarity must come first than conversation.

– a way of getting to the next step past the event or issue. Accepting that we all have something to learn from each other this will help dissolve resistance to change.

– the art of just letting things be what they are instead of trying to justify, excuse or change what it appears to be.  Lessons are learned from a willingness to grow.

– the best possible way to honour each other is to acknowledge something has happened or occurred that requires attention and intention to resolve together.

– is one of the most important keys to resolving any challenge or situation.  The more you trust, the less you doubt and the answers will flow and come clearly.

– the rules of engagement and communication that maintain a point of balance and reference when things are not flowing or going in a loving direction.

– learning to trust self is a difficult challenge.  We are prone to discredit our abilities or feelings when we are being challenged to see, feel or change direction.

– trusting we are being shown something from the highest levels of self-awareness that is trying to connect to the deepest level  of our humanness so we can heal.

– our personal way of handling ourselves in the moments of chaos, corruption or contracts we hold with each other.

– the energy behind our comments and words when we are sharing them with others.  If the energy is out of balance or of alignment with what we really think and feel then we will be know as someone who is not trustworthy or honest.  When we share intimate truths – make sure they are heart felt and not just being said to accommodate someone else feelings or ideals.

– not the ones I think I should be feelings, or are avoiding, but the feeling that comes up when I think of certain things or people.  This is essential to allow yourself to identify how you really feel so you can get to the source of that feeling and correct or clear it so you can feel better.  Owning your own feelings is essential to being able to work with it and through it to be blessed and benefit from what is is teaching you or reminding you about yourself. Denying feelings is one of the greatest sources of HURT we can hold onto.  It will start out emotional, then go physical if we don’t face it.

– not the watered down version, or the kind of response that says – ‘I will tell you what I think you want to hear so I don’t offend you’ response.  This means you have had time to think it through, not in a reactive state and can share a little more openly what is actually going on and how you are dealing with it (or not).

– are the genuine moments when our feelings and emotions are in alignment with what is happening, right here, right now. The wide range of emotions we can have help us navigate life and relationships in order to engage or disengage based on our own deep inner knowing.  Emotions are the distractions we use to keep our true feelings hidden.  They can be hereditary or interpersonal based on our history with someone or just life in general.  Our emotions are the moral compass that helps us tell when we are on or off balance in general.

– the reality of words and deeds when they are shared mean a lot to those that choose to trust that we are being genuine when we say things.  It takes a long time to build a bridge with another soul and it can be easily broken when we are not being honest with them or ourselves.  Sometimes this break cannot be repaired so choose your words and truth carefully.  If you realize you have not honoured the truth – be the one to admit it, share it and change it as soon as possible.

– not your hurt.  This is a good way to determine where your moral compass is pointing.  When we live from our hurt we are defensive, aggressive and abusive to self and others. Living from the heart should feel calm, confident and courageous when we engage in life challenges and relationships.  Our head will tell us the history and memory of what our heart has gone through, but only our feelings can show us how we feel about ourselves and life and how we honestly feel.

– has a deeper meaning behind what you are saying, doing or creating.  Our soul purpose is always guiding us through to the place where we can be genuine and honest with ourselves and others. We intuitively know when we are in alignment with our life purpose, and when we are not.  Our soul will manifest what is needed to bring things into perspective or focus to help us get back on track.  This honest approach never has regrets, resentment or resistance to changing or expressing ourselves.

– love is always present when we are being honest with ourselves and each other – there isn’t a doubt or concern present when we are this open hearted and honest with the world we inhabit. Divine honesty embraces everything as loving, loveable and love worthy, no matter what state it is in or what has happened.

– is the level of truth you are known for sharing.  When there are questions in your own mind about what you are saying or doing – then there will be questions in the minds of others that you are sharing with.  This is a very important part of building relationships that can last and withstand the test of time in challenging situations.

– is one of the greatest challenges we can face as a human.  We tend to want to say YES to everyone and everything so we don’t disappoint or miss out on something we THINK we should be a part of.  As much as that is impressive in the moment, it quickly becomes offensive when we consistently or chronically are a now show to those we have made promises to.  If you are going to say yes – then do it with the intention of making it a priority without any excuses or reasons why not.  If you can’t meet that commitment – better to say NO or let me get back to you (which is also a promise) but gives you more time to make it work if you really want to help. More feelings are hurt by saying yes and not following through – than saying NO and being honest.

– making a commitment is like issuing a contract.  When you are good for your word, others will find it easy to trust you and engage in working with you with confidence.  When you consistently do not make your commitments or promises it sends a message that you are not being honest and genuine, thus leaving others to back away and not want to engage in what you are doing.  There are always circumstances where things come up or work out in a way we had not expected that can prevent us from meeting our commitment, but this should be the exception to the rule and not the normal.

– is a sign you are an honest and dependable person who can be counted on.  Those that respect your time and efforts will only call when they really need you.  If you are someone who likes to offer help and assistance to others, then be prepared to follow through when they reach out or call.  This sends a message that you are trustworthy, honest and caring about the relationships you are part of. If you often invite others just to impress them or make them feel good in the moment, but are a consistent no show when needed – this builds distrust and resentment quickly.

– the way we act around others says a lot about our state of grace and balance. What we say, do and how we feel is an important part of being connected. Community depends on us being able to offer a kind of behaviour that is encouraging, inviting and uplifting in order to feel accepted or appreciated.

– is a very abstract word for us to work with. It can mean so many things to so many people that are both loving and unloving. Again the perspective is all based on how we receive information and what we do with it. We can reject it or accept it as something worth looking into. The choice is always ours to make.

– the way we stop a cycle or pattern that is harmful or ready to heal, a powerful form of surrender that we can do when we are done learning a life lesson or struggle. The relief that is felt is real and the difference it makes can be life changing. When we have gone as far as we can go – there is nothing left to do but give it up to God.

– when the struggle becomes too much to bear we usually end up giving in to whatever we have been resisting or resenting. Stress has a big role in showing us when we need to consider just giving in to the moment, the idea or the feeling we let ourselves ponder the purpose behind it. Not push it away, or set it aside, but really look at it from a place of non-judgment and peace. Only then can we get to the nugget of wisdom that will be waiting to be found.

– something we consider when we are done doing our part or our best to make something happen. When we take responsibility that is not ours, or make something a priority we have no control over or business being involved with . . . it is important to wake up and let go.  Energy will always find a way to be useful for the person it is designed for, but if not – it can become a real challenge or stress we can easily do without.  If we are going to give it away – do it fully.  Don’t hang on to any part of it or we wish we hadn’t as it begins to fester or ferment instead of creating something special.

– our human journey has been paved with moments when we commit ourselves to each other, to God, to Country, to our Job or our Family. We are programmed to begin to quit the moment we commit so we rarely succeed at one thing for life.

– That moment when our heart awakens and recognizes the connection to our inner God (Source) Force. It feels like a moment where we are pure light, pure love and pure of heart. (The homecoming)

– Being truly able to commit to our soul’s purpose in being. Accepting that the work we have been appointed and anointed to do is a reality we can no longer ignore. (Awakening the I am presence)

– Recognizing the connection between all souls who are here to ascend into a higher state of awareness depends on doing the inner work and healing on all levels. (The merging of souls into Oneness)

– is something we tend to fear as it implies we are weak, less than worthy or feeling intimidated in some way. We fight against this part of who we are and perceive it as a judgment or flawed character.

– the moment when the endless battle of fighting, doubting, denying and ignoring the inner calling of our heart ceases to exist. It is not giving up or giving in, but giving freely from the heart.

– is a state of mind & spirit where all things are seen through the stillness of oneness. All interconnected, interwoven and merged into one breath and heart beat.

– happens when we allow the natural flow of inspiration to fill our soul with the essence and energy of love, allowing things and people to be who they are naturally. Alignment and synchronicity begin to inspire and uplift each moment as it unfolds within.